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DEFEAT IS NOT FINAL
TEN CARDINAL FACTS TO DEFEAT DEFEAT

First and Foremost Fact:  The Law of Transiency Rules…A Cosmic Reality.  Change Is ALWAYS Happening.  There Is No Permanency.  Nothing Is Final.  Repeating:  Nothing Is Final.  Cheers!

Second Fact:  There Are No Absolutes In Existence.   It Is All Relativity.  Relations And Interdependence…All Are Interacting,  Converging, Diverging, Transforming.  Nothing, Nothing Stays the Same.  Defeat, Winning, Loss, Gain, Ups and Downs; All Change And Interchange.  No one wins all the time.  No one loses all the time.  Believe it or not; many a time, a winner considers his win a loss; may he wanted more, ever more and more.  Conversely, the wise, the realist and optimist look upon defeat as an eye-opener, a test, a lesson.

Third Fact:  Everything Depends On Your Behavior Now.  Please never lose sight of this fact.  Every instant is a call to change.   To lift off.   To move on.  To forget.  To cherish, to halt, to rethink, to revise and revisit.

Fourth Fact:  Practically speaking, Our Potentials on the Existential Level Are Limitless.  We set our own limitations.  Arbitrarily, Stubbornly and in many instances, apathetically we do so.  When we are in the rush or ill-disposed and down, we oftenly downgrade our options and potential.

Fifth Fact:  Generally Speaking We Use A Mere 10-20% of Our Energy.  Imagine this!  The rest is wasted on doubt, squandered by fear, dissipated in conflict, consumed by stress, forskane when in depression, neglected when laziness visits and lingers.  Come on; Balance Your Energy Account And Reserves.  Invest them wisely, to enhance and boost your whole lot and the living conditions of others.

Sixth Fact:  You alone know your potential and what you can do.  Therefore, know yourself.  Take the inner journey.  No one knows you better.  The task isn’t easy, but doable and essential.

Seventh Fact:  You are your best friend.  Remember this.  It helps to fully realize this.  It’ll lessen inner conflict and subdue self-doubt, illusive fears and self-inflicted harm.

Eighth Fact:  Winning and defeat are merely ups and downs; states, stages, cycles and phases.  None of them is constant.  Repeating:  None of them is constant.

Ninth Fact:  Resort to the gentle way…roll with the punch.  And, if you stumble, rise, again, again and again.  There is always energy in reserve; tap it, use it.

Tenth Fact:  The Solution To Any Problem Is WITHIN THE PROBLEM ITSELF.  There are no problems without solutions…But if you stray away from the problem or panic or become angry or afraid, you will not be able to find out the solution.  Don’t get obsessed with your problem or even with finding the solution.  This leads to anxiety; anxiety doesn’t help.  Calm, rapt attention is key.

REMEMBER:  PROBLEMS WITHOUT SOLUTIONS ARE A FIGMENT OF THE CONFUSED MIND.  A COMFORTING, ENCOURAGING FACT.  NEVER FORGET THIS FACT.  NEVER.